Life is always filled with temptations and desires. It is just like girls always want to buy brand name bags, accessories, cosmetics, etc to satisfy themselves. There is no end for this type of desires. The only difference is Louis Vuiton or Lou Benton (side street kiosks). Basically, all these impulse behaviors can induce stratification and vice versa, due to these behaviors, satisfaction is gained. Think of it this ways, if in daily lives, desires, behaviors and satisfaction are not repaid, and then life is the same as the priest or monk who do not have any desires. The question is do you want to live in a world with desires or in a world of the monks?

Desire → impulse → action → satisfaction, this is our body’s basic biological feedback mechanism. Whether it is emotionally or physically, we are all controlled by God’s invisible hand. It is also because of these elements closely linked together let humans life filled with satisfaction and completeness. If any of the above mentioned elements are missing or disregarded, it will then affect our life or our family member’s life as well as emotions especially couples’ sex life and their intimate relationship. If attentions are not paid to, then problems like distance in relationship and suppressed emotions will certainly happen in the long run.

Maybe you will think that you are not the one that is causing barriers to sex-life. This is also what majority of the females who have barriers to sex life believed in. It also what we often here for example, “Anyway, I am no longer sexually attracted to him”, “His reactions are boring” or “ I am no interested in sex anymore!” and ect. Maybe all these are excuses for the impotent feeling towards sex-life which further suppressed the impulse inside the brain. Therefore, in the long run, our body’s biological feedback mechanism will certainly collapse and desires and satisfaction that belong to you will then get farther and farther away from your life.

Actually, there are too many reasons that can affect a happy sexual relationship; it is not fair to blame it all on you. Regardless of discussing emotional entanglement and age related issues first, the key factor is how sensitive are you to sex. This topic arise some people’s curiosity of whether sex sensitivity can affect a couple’s relationship? Isn’t it just a matter to match your partner? Actually, men are a type of invasive animal which their desire of conquering and satisfactions depends on the reaction of the prey. By looking at the red bottoms of monkeys and their grandness, then you will know. Try to think this ways, if you repay your other half well enough, and reactions are straight forwards, shouldn’t he put more effort into it?

However, the problem is some men’s reactions are very slow and all they know is to just finish the work. They have no techniques of satisfying their other halve. Actually, situations are not that bad because women are perceptual animals that they would most probably forget about their own needs by looking at or thinking about how hard their man are working. In situations like that, with a little guidance and help, woman too can get satisfaction of the sex-life. However, it is easy to say it that way then working very hard to complete the task. If you do get horny and excited easily but not sensitive enough, I am afraid it will all in vain.

The surgery that I want to introduced to everybody is method which a can increase self “sex sensitivity” and not just some folk prescription. Firstly, everyone needs to understand the complete process of sexual intercourse which requires normal functioning of the brain to send out the message of eroticism through the nerves down the spine and to the reproductive organs then via sexual intercourse to stimulate these sex organs to stimulate the brain in order to get orgasm and satisfaction. During this process, there are the effects of hormones. G-spot construction surgery can only enhance the part of the process where the reproductive organ sends back the response which made the process faster and smoother. If you are not a patient with a problem of sex sensitivity or can not feel excitement easily, then there is a must for requirement of doctor performing a detailed check up then determine what the problem is. .

The full name for G-spot is German gynecologist which was firstly brought up by Dr. Ernest Grafenberg, a German doctor of obstetrics and gynecology department, in year 1950. For this reason, scholars also use his name to name it. After the G-spot theory was brought up, it caused a lot of discussion among medical scholars. Some scholars proved from anatomic point of view that there is no special structure of tissue inside a female’s vagina to be described as G-spot. Some scholars believe that the so called G-spot is just a sponge like urethra or tissue filled with some nerves and dense blood vessels. In the year of 1982, a large scaled investigation and experiment proved that most women actually have G-spot located around 1/3 down from the vagina and orgasm which is similar to male ejaculation process can be caused by stimulating the G-spot. Thus, the existence for G-spot is confirmed by its function during sexual behavior.

According to experimental research, the G-spot is located between the urethra wall and the vagina. It is similar to a woman’s prostate gland as it location is deep inside; it will only inflated when stimulated. Therefore, about half of the percentage of women does not know the location of G-spot. Some even aggrandize their experience of “G-spot orgasm” (G-spot orgasm is different from vagina orgasm which requires the entering of a male’s genital organ to achieve excitement similar to the sensation of incontinence.) Also because G-spot is very difficult to locate, we can locate its position base on conclusion and diagnosis made in literatures. Its location should be located inside the vagina and at the intersection about 1/3 down vagina with the direction at about 11-13 o’clock position in front. Besides, there are about 10% of females that can not find their G-spot.

G-Spot reconstruction surgery belongs to functional rectify sugary. Its principle is very easy which is to increase the thickness of the mucus of the vagina to let patients to easily stimulate G-spot. We will start by asking patients to masturbate at home to “feel” the approximate location their G-spot. If you belong to patens that are sex insensitive and can not be excited easily, then we need to utilize special machine to test and locate it. Then apply local anesthesia in the located position inside vagina, make an incision of 2mm, then inset the previously prepared silicon ball or self tissue under the mucus area, then stitch up the incision to complete the surgery. It takes about 40 minutes to complete the whole process. After the surgery, 2 days rest is required for the wound to cure. After that normal sex life can be resumed again.

The procedure of this surgery is easy, but how to accurately find the G-spot is the big question. Besides, attention need to be paid on the deepness of the silicone ball buried to prevent breakage or future infections. According to a Korean statistics, even though doctors strive to find or predict the location for the G-spot, there are still 10 to 20 % of chances that women’s response is not well after the surgery or even think there is no difference, especially for patients who originally had problems with sex insensitive or frigidness. Therefore, thorough and also honest consultation and communication is very important. Generally, I also request their spouse to attend the consultation together so both parties can express their requests more clearly and don’t over expect anything. Not every female with barrier to sex life requires the help of G-spot reconstruction surgery.

In today’s Taiwan society, sex is no longer an unspeakable issue. G-Spot reconstruction surgery can help most women who are sex insensitivity to regain enjoyment orgasm, but it still can not solve all the problems for the couple. In the search for sexual pleasure, G-spot reconstruction surgery plays an important role. No matter if you are a feminist or not, I sincerely hope we all have a better and healthier understanding of relationship between male and female. Only this way, we can discover our true needs and achieve the final goal which is mutual satisfaction. It is this which makes the surgery meaningful.